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A Lone
Star State of Chastity
Susan Adams
May 2005
PBS will be airing a documentary in
June about a girl from Lubbock, Texas, who is fighting for comprehensive
sex education. This in and of itself is not anything extraordinary,
but what caught the attention of the producers is the fact that the young
lady, Shelby Knox, is a virgin and has made a commitment to stay that way
until she is married. Not to mention that Shelby was raised in a
conservative, Christian home and is still part of the church community.
"I was 15 when I pledged sexual purity.
It was the thing to do if you're a good Southern Baptist girl," says Shelby.
If her decision was made because it
was "the thing to do," then the value of saving sex for marriage obviously
does not run deep with Shelby. That "good Southern Baptist girl"
now fights for comprehensive sex education in public schools -- education
that includes instruction on birth control and condom usage. Once
she saw the rates of teen pregnancy in her city of Lubbock, Shelby decided
teaching abstinence was not enough. She is now in college, but even
during her high school days, Shelby battled against the administration's
abstinence-only sex education policy. Her reasons and views are the
highlight of the documentary, which will air later this summer, titled
"The Education
of Shelby Knox."
After reading the information on the
PBS website, I am struck by two specific aspects of the documentary.
First, I can’t help but comment on some of what was said by producers,
Rose Rosenblatt and Marion Lipschutz during an interview. Second,
I must specifically address the faith that Shelby professes, and how that
should play a part in every Christian’s view of what is taught.
Here are some snippets from an interview
with the producers (with my own comments added in italics):
[W]e had Shelby's coming
of age story, her struggles as she moved from being a conservative Christian
to a liberal Christian. But we hadn't banked on the dimension that her
parents would offer to this transformation. Although at the end of the
story they disagree with a fair number of Shelby's political points, they
remain a loving family and deeply supportive of their daughter, which is
a message of wholeness and healing.
(Translated: A message of post-modern
"whatever is good for you" attitude and an acceptance of every viewpoint
as the truth.)
[S]omehow all that extremism
would get neutralized and the viewer would identify with this family…
(Translated: Somehow all those crazed
right-wing Christians who believe in such a preposterous idea as absolute
truth and still believe the Gospel is as applicable today as it was thousands
of years ago would finally come to their senses.)
The other big surprise we
discovered in filming was Superintendent Clemmons. I mean, we had no idea
that in the end it would turn out he was having an affair with his secretary
the whole while that Shelby and the Youth Commission were lobbying him
for better sex ed. You know, while he was saying, "no, we can't give these
kids sex ed because that will lead to more sexual behavior." That was just
the perfect payoff, and it's every filmmaker's dream because when you go
into making a film you have no idea what your ending's going to be…. We
did debate whether or not to include Superintendent Clemmons' affair at
the end of the film. It was like a gift from the gods, how couldn't we?
But we debated it for a couple of reasons. Was it a cheap shot? It's obviously
funny.
(No translation needed. The
fact that these filmmakers saw a man’s decision to be unfaithful to his
wife as "funny," "the perfect payoff," and "every filmmaker’s dream" is
pathetic.)
While Shelby battles on as a "liberal
Christian," I must say that it breaks my heart to see Christians using
the methods of this world, rather than using God’s ways, to try to bring
about change. Though I am glad she has chosen to lead an abstinent
lifestyle until marriage, her fight for comprehensive sex education is
robbing future generations of the message that sex is something beautiful
and virginity something worth treasuring.
As a Christian (and a teacher of God’s
plan for sex), it troubles me when I see other followers of Christ try
to save the world on their own. I do not give presentations and speak to
teenagers about sex and the joys and freedom of saving it for marriage
merely in order to see the teen pregnancy rates or STD rates fall.
I do not do it with the hopes that statistics will show "our" way (abstinence-only)
as the most effective way. I do it to serve my Savior and risen Lord.
His Word is the truth, and we are called to speak it.
There is no doubt that if the world
began to do things the way God commands us in Scriptures, teen pregnancy
rates and STD rates would fall dramatically. However, His Word also
makes it clear that some people will refuse to listen. Still, our
job remains the same -- teach His Word.
Preach the word! Be ready
in season and out of season. Convince, rebuke, exhort, with all longsuffering
and teaching. For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine,
but according to their own desires, because they have itching ears, they
will heap up for themselves teachers; and they will turn their ears away
from the truth, and be turned aside to fables. But you be watchful in all
things, endure afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, fulfill your
ministry. (II
Timothy 4:2-5)
The statement that "kids are going to
have sex anyway, so we have to teach them how to be safe doing it" is a
fallacy in and of itself. Premarital sex is not safe regardless of
what contraceptive one may use. Three million new STD cases occur
in teenagers each year, and condoms provide little to no protection against
the most prevalent ones. But such a statement is also a direct contradiction
to what God commands us to do.
Though the world may not listen, we
cannot stop speaking His truth. God’s plan for sex is between a man
and a woman committed to each other in the beauty of marriage. We
must cling to His promises still knowing that it is not we who change the
hearts of man (I
Corinthians 3:6-7).
He promises that His Word will not
return void (Isaiah
55:11), and as long as I have breath in me, I will depend on that promise
as I continue the work He has placed me here to do. |
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